Bette Davis once famously said, "Old Age is no place for Sissies."
Well I think we can rephrase that statement to say,
"Home Staging is no place for Sissies." 
Sissy: A person defined as timid, weak or cowardly.
Professional home stagers know that in order to be successful you have to really work hard, and work smart. Being timid, weak or cowardly is a sure recipe for failure as a Home Stager.
We have to be bold, strong, and brave - especially in a market that is changing.
This does not mean we don't have fear about rejection or discomfort in approaching people about our business. Fear is a natural part of any human - fear is normal, however we have to get past our fear and overcome it in order to have the success we want. We cannot let our fear paralyze us to the point of inaction.
We have to bold to get our message out to our audience. We have to, as the title of one of my favorite books says, "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway."
We have to be bold in our Staging as well - and make sure that our Staging really is Staging, not decorating or design, and not something done to appease a pushy client. We have to be bold and educate our clients about what home staging is - and what it is not, and begin to counter the things we see on television that are really harming us as Stagers. I have yet to see one show that truly depicts what we do as Stagers, that has not crossed the line into decorating, design, remodeling, and criticism.
Being bold in Staging also means reinventing our look from time to time so that our Staging does not get stale or predictable. It means having fun with what we do and use our creativity in situations where others would give up - and go shopping. I love that part of being a home stager - that I was taught to use creativity first, and then the dollar, to help clients. It is a challenge we rise to time and time again, to the delight of our clients and Realtors who never thought the house could look so great, and never thought of using items in the way we used them in the staging process.
We have to be strong - physically and mentally.
Physical strength is needed. I did not realize how much physical activity it would take to be successful in Staging. I am a strong woman - I always have been. I was a dancer in my younger years and played all sorts of sports and have an arm that would rival good quarterbacks. With a team partner I have moved whole houses of furniture in to vacant staging projects, and have loaded and unloaded trucks, and warehouses. It is a prerequisite of our job to be strong physically, and the good news is for those that do not have the physical strength, we can hire help!
I got smarter as I grew my business, and we do hire labor for moving things - heck, I only have one back, and I don't want to tweak it out because of Staging (and I have J). I have suffered sore back, tennis elbow, broken toes, scrapes, bruises, and the near loss of an eye from a flying bungee (hit my lip instead and split it open). Once those things happen, you tend to reassess the wisdom of "doing it all alone" to save money, and begin to stage smarter.
Hiring help actually helped us stage faster, smarter and kept us from getting overly tired and injured. So we actually are able to accomplish more in one day than in the past. I have always said, as long as have our minds and can envision the plan for Staging, we can stage.
Mental strength to me is more important than physical strength. With so many people jumping in to the Staging market, it is now about mental sharpness, and being able to deliver a message of WHY a person needs to work with my company or me as a Stager, versus someone else. Positioning.
It requires staying on top of the real estate market and trends, and responding in kind to keep business flowing. It also requires a constant positive attitude adjustment so that I don't end up locking myself up in fear, or analysis paralysis - both also the kiss of death for Stagers. I don't bury my head in the sand and ignore what is obviously happening with our economy, I ask, "How will this affect our business, and what can I do to help stimulate production?"
It always boils down to marketing - and so I find ways to entice clients to use our services and remind them of the benefits of Staging versus sitting on the market.
And we have to be brave - of course, our Staging does not take the bravery of our armed forces, but we do have to have a sense or courage and bravery when we go out to promote our business. We have to have courage in the face of economic times where financial disaster seems to be looming around every corner. We have to be brave and delve in to new market niches - and be willing to reinvent ourselves to respond to the market and the needs of customers. We have to have the courage to keep a positive attitude when everything and everyone around us might be telling us doom and gloom information.
The natural tendency for most humans is to hunker down and wait it out - but waiting in our business, means not doing face time, and not getting out there to go after business, and this is too risky for us as Stagers. In tough times, we have to be out there even MORE than in the past- because our business is built on relationships, and when we are out of sight, we are out of mind. That then leaves potential opportunities for Staging up for grabs for the person that is out there, a presence in person, and actively asking for business.
So sissy stagers will fall away in these tough times, and the strong will survive. This is the way it with all species - it's called, Survival of the Fittest.
The question is, how fit are you and will you overcome the fear and get out there anyway? My hope is that you will - and when this economy turns around (and it will), we will find ourselves with even more ways to serve our clients, the ability to earn even more than we ever thought possible, and the strength to keep Staging day by day.
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We Stage Sacramento is a full-service Home Staging company serving the Greater Sacramento market. For over six years we have been helping sellers, builders and Realtors prepare houses for sale, successfully staging over 2,500 properties. Our Services also include services for redesign, holiday staging, and workplace staging. We are members of the International Association of Home Staging Professionals (IAHSP) and accredited as ASP Home Stagers. Call us at 888-WE-STAGE or www.WeStageSacramento.com

Amen!
Great post Jennie....Don't forget ethics and professionalism..
Well said Jennie :)
I couldn't have said it better myself! Jennie, it has taken me two years to get over the fear of offending a client by letting them know their "compromise" is nothing less then a noose around their necks. My approach is always that the client is in charge but at some point we have to take charge to get the house sold. I especially love the mention of keeping Stagings fresh - never stale. That is so important - I see too many cookie cutter Stagings from the same Home Stagers.
Jan Whitlow, ASPM, IAHSP
Jennie,
Great post! It really does take a strong individual to handle being a stager. You really need to have the strength of a work horse to lift and move the amount of inventory we shuffle around in one week!
What a wonderful expression of who we are and what we have to do. You are a great writer, so I can imagine you have a wonderful imaginiation and are creative in your work. Great...thanks
Great post Jennie. I think a lot of people forgot what hard work staging can be and how mentally taxing it can sometimes be to always be creative and fresh. I also agree about the marketing. We can be great at what we do, but if no one knows about us...we will quickly be out of business. I always enjoy your posts.
Hi Jennie, Excellent points, we do have to be strong, courageous, smart and open for opportunity.. God bless and Thanks!
Jennie, well writtten insight into this business. It would be great if anyone thinking about getting into staging, could read this!
Wendy Casey - Surrey, BC
Jennie, excellent post! Stagers have to have a tough skin and you really have to love it. We have to get through the hard part so we can enjoy the fun and glamorous part of it.
Thanks for your continued teaching & motivating!
Glad to read this post Jeannie. As a new ( 1 year) stager I'm encouraged to read your thougths. Look forward to meeting you someday.
Debra Landy (StageTwoSell)
Wow! What a great pep talk! I really needed it too. I am getting my new presentation ready and need to march out into the fray and give those presentations. One thing that has happened to me this past year is that some of my best broker/clients, have left the real estate biz entirely. I feel as if I'm starting all over again! But then, I did it once, so I can do it again.
I got my initial training from you. Had forgotten what a powerhouse you are! Thank you again for the motivation.
This is an awesome post. It reminds me of why I got into this business! When navigating the Active Rain blogs, I have seen some really wonderful pictures and articles, and sometimes feel like I don't measure up. I don't have a huge inventory and pride myself on using most of the furnishings that the clients own. I don't always have the most modern looking rooms, but they are usually clean, decluttered and better than when I walked in. Creativity is vital is these situations! I loved what you said - I am not a designer, I am a stager - hear me roar!
Fantastic post, Jennie!
If anyone is in this busines for the long term, this is the time to make yourself known. Continue to do the things we were taught in our training...continue to give presentations and let the public (homeowners and REALTORS) know we are here to provide a service that brings BENEFITS to all.
We all appreciate your contributions to AR and to our Staging Community at large.
Jane Ann Lance, Enhanced by Lance, LLC, Mobile, AL's Premier Property Presentation Specialist
Jennie,
In these times I know that I must press in even harder in order to keep my business going. It's all worth it because "I Love This Business!".
Jennie, I agree with Sheila. Sounds like we have similar businesses. Your post is so right. We do have to keep promoting staging and educate the public even in these times. I have found that the economic and market changes have actually brought me new broker/clients. Agents are now realizing they have to add to their arsenal to get those listings. They now want to market the fact that they have a stager on their teams. Sellers are realizing that there is a lot of competition out there and they have to be ready.