I am replying to Kate Hart's blog here because she has not communicated with me on a personal level since she resigned from Stagedhomes.com as a Trainer. I truly looked upon her as a sister and really miss our relationship. Unable to separate me (just Jennie) from my role as a Trainer with Stagedhomes.com, she no longer trusts that I can actually just be me, and I am sad to report that I cannot blog on her sites as she is not open to hearing from me and I also don't want my responses screened or edited. If that has changed - please let me know Kate. Our last communication you did not respond back to me leaving me with the clear impression that "just Jennie" did not exist. As I shared back then I knew and know nothing about your interactions with attorneys.
As for what transpired with Stagedhomes.com - there is more to the story that I am not going to share here. Not only is this not an appropriate forum, but it's not anyone else's business.
Since you DID put my name in your blog, Kate and asked for my response - I feel it necessary to clarify that my business set up and how you are running yours are NOT the same. I set up a TEAM - like you did. You used my model as a framework for your business. I have shared my team set-up with many ASPs across the nation. However, unlike your company, I give ownership to the team members. They are all independent contractors. The only fees they pay are to help with joint marketing and the fees are based only on their time, not inventory. They are not referral fees - it is money they would be spending anyway - and actually less since we are able to combine our $$ for joint marketing projects and materials. Nor is there a requirement or dollar amount they have to provide or fee to join. It is strictly on their honor and I do not control all the jobs. I do NOT take a referral fee for jobs. I did NOT set up a referral fee program up and down the west coast (as you did on the east).
Being referred to by some as the "Staging Mafia" (not my term - theirs) my business is not set up like yours at all. I have never charged for the many referrals I have given to fellow ASP Stagers all over the US. I have not profited from their work nor have I set up my business to be a resource of leads for other Stagers outside of my market. Those are things you chose to do on your own. So your set up and mine are vastly different. I have given leads to ASPs in my own market as well - again with no referral fees.
Since you are not part of the SHC program you do not have the full details on the referral program. It is NOT for ASPs to charge other ASPs for business - instead it is a way for ASPs that want leads from a lead generation program to help build their business. I don't have to give details here - it is not a requirement for those that want to pass leads to other ASPs - this is not the same thing.
So let me just say - I am tired of people finding reasons to bash Stagedhomes.com and Barb - people with personal issues that should be dealt with on a personal level. This site is full of them. Learn from the past and then move on to do things that are productive.
If I did not know better, I would think that some of you on this site have the sole goal of focusing on Stagedhomes.com and posting negative comments - instead of building your business! WOW. My life is too important for me to keep going back and rehashing stuff. I would think that with your families and other more important issues you'd be able to move on. The emotional energy you put forth to continue to drag us all through your personal drama is tiring. Enough already. Let it go - for your own good and ours too.
This is not an episode of Law & Order. We are not a jury - and we don't have to keep hearing the same old stuff dredged up. We get it. You have issues with how things happened. So does the other side. Let it go for your sanity and for the future of your health and the people on this site who don't need to be dragged down an unproductive rat hole!
I have been off this site of a little over 2 weeks and within the first 5 minutes of logging on - BAM! here is yet another examples of the junk I want to get away from!! Stop the madness!
Anyone engaging in replies to those that want to complain about how they were done wrong (in any situation) - let me advise you to understand there are two very clear sides to any story. There is accountability for actions that some will never take - and so don't always believe everything you read.
Let's go out and Stage and keep it positive!! Isn't that what this site is supposed to be for? I wonder if I'll get a gold star for presenting this viewpoint?
- Jennie